Small Tools for Big Feelings
A science-based calm-down guide for overwhelming days. Short journaling, drawing and breathing exercises for the moments that hit hardest, each with the research behind it.
- Exercises for specific moments, like when you can't sleep or after a hard conversation
- Each one takes 5 to 15 minutes
- Printable pages you can keep close
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Hi, I'm Sonja
I get overwhelmed easily, so I've spent years reading studies on what actually calms the mind. Writing, drawing and short pauses work best for me, and I share them here with links to the research and an honest note on its limits.
- Not a therapist
- Reads the research
- 5 to 15 minute exercises
101 Self-Love Affirmations
A printable PDF of 101 short, kind sentences to read when your inner voice gets harsh. Sign up and the download opens right away. I'll also email you new calming exercises as I put them together.
Please note: the content on Upbeat Impulse is for general information and is not a substitute for professional help. If you are in crisis in the US, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). Outside the US, contact your local emergency number.
